For the past several months, I’ve had this craving to share a different side of my life on the blog. My Indian side, which really isn’t so much of a ‘side of me’ as it is a part of me that has been longing to be acknowledged. It’s how I walk, it’s how I talk, and – in its entirety, it’s who I am. I remember a time when I would come home, look in the mirror and ask myself, “why is my skin brown?” or, “how come my food smells funny?” At that age, I didn’t understand or appreciate my Indian heritage. Admittedly, I hated it. I was young, and to me being different didn’t translate to being beautiful; to me it meant I didn’t fit in with the norm. I interpreted myself as being the odd-girl-out and therefore somehow less than my peers. But thankfully, my perspective on my heritage eventually changed.
As I transitioned from childhood to my teenage years to now being a grown married woman, I have this deep desire to connect with what makes me Indian. A large part of that is what I eat and how I eat. I love looking into the mirror and seeing my nose ring sparkle, my long black hair is worn proudly, and on days I choose to wear a bindi, I sort through all my sachets to find the perfect one. Most of all, I love the opportunity to wear sentimental jewelry; like my mangal sutra, which symbolizes my marital status (you’ll catch a glimpse of it in photos, it has dark black beads around the chain, it’s kind of beautiful if I do say so myself!).
Okay, okay, moving forward…so what does this have to do with food and your life?
Alas, here is the idea: I want to share Indian and Indian fusion recipes in the way I grew up with them. Similar to the “Girls Night In” (GNI) series I hosted last year, I decided to host another GNI, Indian style! Guests included: Chantal of ‘Nutty for Nutrition’, Courtney Rae of ‘The Fig Tree’, Jennifer Ashley of ‘Pretty Little Details’, Sara of ‘Soul Nutrition Consulting’, Jessie of ‘One + One Designs’, and of course, my closest friend, Christine (who you’ve met before!), who’s my nurse friend turned amazing food photographer.
Take a peek at the video below which was produced by SambaJoy Photo + Art. I hope you love it as much as I do! Stay tuned for recipe details on all of the amazing dishes we prepped and promptly demolished. We’ll be starting with dessert first. Yes you read that right, I said wrote that for real. Dessert. First.
Namaste.
Sunayna Gupta says
Nita!
Everyone looks amazing and the good was delicious! It was my pleasure styling your table, thank you so much for the shout out! I can’t wait to get my hands on all these delicious Indian recipes. I find myself connecting more and more with my roots now that I am a mother. Love ya!
Sunayna
Sunayna Gupta says
*food
nsharda says
Thank you Sonu – your magical touches made the event not only run smoothly, but look amazing. Let me know what more I can do to help!
Jenn says
Beautiful post, beautiful story. Absolutely inspiring.
nsharda says
Hi Jenn – thank you for stopping by. I’m glad you enjoyed the honesty in my story!
Salma says
I love the video and the post is so wonderful to read. I think we can all relate growing up and feeling a little bit different. Really looking forward to checking out the recipes of all the delicious looking food!
Heather says
Such a fun (and undoubtedly crazy delicious) event! That video is stellar. Can’t wait to see the recipes — eggplant for bhartha? I made that last night to go along with tandoor chicken thighs and Gujarti-style okra. It’s one of my absolute favorites! Maybe someone I’l crash a party over there… Cheers!
nsharda says
Party crashers graciously welcomed! Thanks for stopping by Heather! Recipes are slowing being released, yippee!
Heather says
Excellent! I’ll hold you to the crashing statement…